When it comes to choosing a mate for a lasting relationship, what matters most?
PERSONALITY, WEALTH or LOOKS?
PERSONALITY, WEALTH or LOOKS?
Okay, that's it. We all have our own set of ideals and standards. We all have our considerations in choosing the right person to be with. For most of the women, they prefer wealth because they look for the security and stability of the relationship; while men settle for the compatibility of each other's personality.
Now, our idea is on that if the person would meet our standards, we could live happily. We could attain a lasting relationship yet it's not. It is funny how we set qualifications while we are in the process of finding someone to engage with in a relationship and yet the person we love is always an exemption. So, think setting qualifications would mean worthless when we know that in the end we'll only be breaking all the rules (that is if you use your heart and not your head). Everyone has ideals. That one must possess good personality, must look good or must have money in order for him to qualify exactly as one would wish. But then again, let us not forget that ideals imply an imaginative treatment that seeks to show one's conception of a perfect lover. And besides, if you want to find the right one... You have to be the right one first and keep in memory that lovers are never perfect but love can be. So why waste time looking for the ideal person instead of creating the ideal LOVE that makes a relationship last.
Now, our idea is on that if the person would meet our standards, we could live happily. We could attain a lasting relationship yet it's not. It is funny how we set qualifications while we are in the process of finding someone to engage with in a relationship and yet the person we love is always an exemption. So, think setting qualifications would mean worthless when we know that in the end we'll only be breaking all the rules (that is if you use your heart and not your head). Everyone has ideals. That one must possess good personality, must look good or must have money in order for him to qualify exactly as one would wish. But then again, let us not forget that ideals imply an imaginative treatment that seeks to show one's conception of a perfect lover. And besides, if you want to find the right one... You have to be the right one first and keep in memory that lovers are never perfect but love can be. So why waste time looking for the ideal person instead of creating the ideal LOVE that makes a relationship last.
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